Masturbation during pregnancy: pleasant for mom, safe for baby

Is it possible to masturbate during pregnancy?

Self-pleasure, like sex, does not affect pregnancy, and in general, the answer to the question of whether pregnant women can masturbate is positive. But only in the case of a normal pregnancy; Sometimes it is not recommended to do this in the last stages, because... orgasm can trigger uterine contractions. In such cases, as a rule, the gynecologist warns the woman about the risks.

Self-satisfaction at different times

The first trimester is the most risky for keeping the fetus or embryo in the uterus. Miscarriages most often occur at this stage. Therefore, masturbation in the early stages for pregnant women is a good alternative to sex that does not pose a threat and satisfies sexual desire.

Second trimester

In the 2nd trimester, masturbation also does not harm the normal process of bearing a child. Orgasm is not recommended only in cases where there is a threat of premature birth or separation of the placenta. The doctor must warn you about this.

In addition, during this period, orgasm may be more intense than before. This is due to increased blood circulation in the genitals; Hormones that are secreted in abundance during pregnancy also play a role.

Position of the fetus in the abdomen

Interestingly, during orgasm, the stomach can change shape. Contracting muscles are responsible for these changes. But there's nothing to worry about. You can masturbate during pregnancy, orgasm does not endanger the baby, muscle contraction is a completely normal process.

After satisfaction, slight contractions in the uterus may be felt. This is also not a cause for concern. We are not talking about contractions, but about the body's reaction to orgasm. Some women compare this condition to mild menstrual cramps, but their intensity is an individual matter.

Last weeks of term

The most exciting question is whether it is possible to masturbate at 38 weeks of pregnancy and later. Self-satisfaction during the normal course of bearing a child does not harm. In case of overmaturity, it can speed up the process.

Orgasmic contractions actually induce labor by releasing oxytocin from the hypothalamus into the woman's bloodstream.

The good news is that orgasm does not harm the baby in any way. On the contrary, self-satisfaction helps relieve mental tension, fight stress, it is necessary for partner life, and is beneficial for the female body. Thanks to it, happiness hormones are secreted. For example, oxytocin provides not only a feeling of general pleasure, but also a more intense orgasm.

How is masturbation beneficial for pregnant women?

One of the main benefits of self-pleasure is that it provides an outlet for sexual energy. If a pregnant woman feels desire, sexual desire and constantly restrains herself, this can disrupt her psychological state and result in neurosis. One of the signs that the expectant mother needs to throw out sexual energy is erotic dreams.

The second reason why a woman should masturbate is to improve blood circulation in the pelvis, which occurs during orgasm. And this has a positive effect on the development of the fetus, since with blood flow to the uterus, it receives the maximum amount of oxygen and nutrients.

There are cases when self-satisfaction is preferable to sexual intercourse, namely:

• when one of the partners is infectiously ill and this disease can be sexually transmitted to the baby;
• if a woman experiences pain during sexual intercourse;
• a pregnant woman, due to her belly and excess weight, feels uncomfortable with traditional types of sex.

It is also important that during orgasm, and it is easier to achieve it with self-satisfaction, pleasure hormones - endorphins - enter the blood, which have a very good effect on the nervous system. The child also receives some of these hormones. Doctors say that those women who regularly receive sexual release do not have problems with insomnia and loss of energy, and they almost never experience depression.

When to abstain

There are exceptions to masturbation during pregnancy. Experts caution and recommend caution for certain conditions and complications, including:

• placenta previa (placenta previa) – the placenta blocks the internal purpose of the uterus, which threatens its separation;
• vaginal bleeding – including cases where the cause of the bleeding is unknown;
• risk of vaginal bleeding - for example, if there is a hematoma in the uterus;
• frequent contractions of the uterus or hardening that does not correspond to the timing;
• frequent pain in the uterus, pain on palpation;
• risk of preterm birth or existing preterm birth in a previous pregnancy;
• premature opening of the cervix or excessive contraction;
• discharge of amniotic fluid;
• presence of genital herpes.

What not to do?

To prevent benefit from turning into harm, you must follow some recommendations:

• First of all, you need to wash your hands thoroughly or use an antiseptic. A pregnant woman's body is open to infections and bacteria, so hygiene should come first.
• It is better to replace lubricants with oil purchased at a pharmacy. It goes through several stages of cleaning and is always disinfected.
• It is important to completely avoid stimulating the sphincter, both with your hands and with various objects. In pregnant women, the rectum is less elastic and can be easily injured. This is due to frequent stool disorders and blood stagnation in the pelvic area. If you do not heed this recommendation, you can provoke the appearance of hemorrhoids and other problems.
• During masturbation, it is better to avoid the use of intimate toys and other objects, even if they are always kept clean. The vaginal mucosa becomes very sensitive during pregnancy, and any careless movement can cause damage. This can also contribute to the development of thrush, which often accompanies pregnant women.

In conclusion, it is important to say that every expectant mother must decide for herself whether to masturbate during pregnancy or not. It all depends on individual preferences and principles, since for some this is unacceptable even in everyday life. A woman should pay attention to her physical and moral condition and take into account the recommendations of her doctor.

Safe techniques and methods

It is better to exclude sexual toys from games for a while

If you have no problems with self-pleasure outside of pregnancy, you will most likely masturbate while pregnant. But how? It depends on you.

The range of possibilities for female masturbation is endless. The most pressing question in this regard is whether pregnant women can masturbate with “sex toys.” If you are used to them, you may have problems using them. The obstacle is a growing belly, but this should not be discouraged.

If a woman is used to a vibrator, you can try a vibrating head with an extended handle. Another option is “assistants” that have remote control.

But if you have ulcers, hemorrhoids or other lesions of the genital area, it is better to avoid vibrating auxiliary objects, because they can irritate tissues.

Self-pleasure during pregnancy will not affect your ability to orgasm during sex, but it can sometimes have an unusual effect on the moment. Orgasm can cause uterine contractions, often very intense and prolonged. We are talking about Braxton-Hicks contractions, which are common, in particular, at later stages.

Reasons why you shouldn't masturbate

It is strictly not recommended for women who are at risk of miscarriage to masturbate. Therefore, if the doctor mentioned such a problem, then, of course, it is better to abstain.

Until 11-13 weeks of pregnancy, the embryo has not yet had time to consolidate well, so during this period it is really better to avoid intimacy.

In late pregnancy, orgasm can have a strong impact on the tone of the uterus, which can lead to labor starting earlier than expected. There is also a significant chance of getting some kind of infection. When a girl is pregnant, the cervix shortens over time. Therefore, exposure to hands and various objects can be harmful due to insufficient sterility. It is important to pay attention to hygiene.

Apart from these factors, there are no barriers to satisfying sexual needs.

What risks may arise?

It is best for a pregnant woman to consult a gynecologist for an answer to the question of whether it is possible to masturbate. Only he can say whether self-satisfaction is safe in a particular case.

Risks and complications are possible only in the case of a high-risk pregnancy or the presence of local diseases. They are represented by the following problems:

• bleeding;
• vaginal infections;
• urinary tract infections;
• problems with the cervix;
• premature placental abruption.

Sometimes a relative contraindication for self-satisfaction is multiple pregnancies.

Is it possible to masturbate during pregnancy?

Not every mother can have sex with her husband, due to various circumstances. That is why the question of self-satisfaction is quite relevant. If there are no pathologies and the expectant mother’s health is good, masturbation or sex is not prohibited. Moreover, such activities are beneficial for the female body. This is explained by improved mood and stress relief.

If caresses take place in the shower, you should not use too hot water. Masturbation in the shower should be done as carefully as possible, the temperature of the stream should not exceed 37 °C. Otherwise, various complications may arise.

Sex or masturbation - which is better?

So, in most cases it is possible to masturbate while pregnant. The following question arises: why not give preference to ordinary sexual intercourse? It depends on personal preference, but for comparison, check out the table:

Why does sexual desire increase?

As practice shows, sexual desire in women after conceiving a baby increases after about 12 weeks. This is due to the fact that it is by this time that the unpleasant symptoms associated with toxicosis go away. These include morning sickness, severe sensitivity to odors, dizziness, etc. In addition, some physiological changes occur that contribute to the girl experiencing more vivid sexual sensations. These include:

• Narrowing of the vagina.
• Increase in size of the clitoris.
• Increased blood circulation in the genital area.
• Increasing the amount of lubrication.
• Increased vaginal sensitivity.

Practice shows that a woman often experiences her first orgasm precisely after conception.

Sexual rest for pregnant women - is it necessary or not?

If you want to have sex, be careful. Sexual rest during pregnancy is recommended for women who have had miscarriages in the past and are prone to bleeding.

Regarding the advisability of sexual abstinence, consult your gynecologist.

1st trimester

Sexual relations in the 1st trimester should be as careful as possible due to the risk period. But most women at this time do not feel well enough for sexual games - they are worried about unusual fatigue, nausea...

2nd trimester

At this time, most of the problems recede. Sexual desire returns to normal (sometimes even increases, which is associated with hormonal changes). Blood supply to the genital organs and vaginal hydration increases. This makes it easier and faster to achieve orgasm. Moreover, the tummy is not yet big, the woman feels good. Therefore, if there are no contraindications, the 2nd trimester is the best time to enjoy while bearing a baby.

3rd trimester

By the 3rd trimester, sexual desire decreases again due to the increased burden on the body. Sex should be careful.

Sexual relations, like masturbation, are recommended during postmaturity. This is due not only to contractions of the uterus, but also to the influence of male ejaculate - it contains prostaglandins that can speed up labor.

Sexual rest during pregnancy is recommended in case of a history of miscarriage or threat of miscarriage. Contraindication for sex is the end of a previous pregnancy with premature birth before the 37th week or the risk of premature birth.

The next negative factor is vaginal bleeding without a known cause, discharge, spasms, and waste of amniotic fluid. Indications for sexual rest are placenta previa, the risk of placenta abruption, multiple pregnancies.

Everything's under control

In the middle and late stages, sex positions should be the most gentle, the main guideline in their choice is the woman’s comfort. In case of disagreement, you should meet her wishes halfway.

At any stage of pregnancy, the position lying on the side with the man behind is comfortable and easy for the expectant mother.

The position when a woman sits on her partner's lap with her back to him is especially good in the middle of pregnancy. It not only eliminates pressure on the abdomen and risk to the baby, but also allows the woman to control the depth of penetration. This position is also good because the man can freely caress his partner’s breasts and clitoris during intercourse.

Some positions with the woman on top also allow her to control the speed of movement and the depth of penetration of the penis, and are great even for late pregnancy.

Many women find the position on all fours comfortable.

At different stages of pregnancy, women may experience very different sexual desires and are eager to try different approaches. However, the swelling of the cervix and uterus itself in some cases makes vaginal intercourse not particularly pleasant. The woman should be given the opportunity to control the depth of penetration of the penis.

Some couples first try new clothing positions. This helps them focus their collective energy on the purely technical aspects and allows them to enjoy the funny side of the situation. At the same time, they are not at all bothered by such issues as the need to hurry and the problem of an erection that cannot wait long.